Legit Royal Bypass — When Total Ignore Is Necessary (K014)

• ¶ Classic Scenario - Your Response Is Ignored ↴
• ¶ Unsolicited Exploiters — Cancel, Existence Denied ↴
• ¶ In Taming Your Cognitive Loops ↴
• ¶ In Summary — Four Bypass Scenarios ↴

When is it okay to ignore people? And I don't mean, "hang on, please wait". That's called postponing, deferring, bouncing.

What I'm talking about is the royal bypass, entirely ignoring the existence, presence and expressions of someone or something, as if looking through thin air. When is that valid?

Classic Scenario - Your Response Is Ignored ¶

So here's the classic scenario. You have already said your "no", you have already said your "stay tuned, I will get back to you on that". But people keep on nagging and haunting you over something that is important for them, where they cannot hold their patience, and they simply will not respect your boundaries and what you have established.

In here, you've already given a "yes", a "no" or a "maybe", and reaffirmed it, and third time's the charm, when you've done it three times and they still keep on at it, they cease to exist. They are oblivion.

So that's a primed scenario, there is preceding interaction, and there will have been exchanges, reviews on priorities, urgency and so on, of things. You need to engage with that.

Someone drops a topic, "Need to look at this now", and you say "No, I don't think that's important right now, we'll get back to that."

Then presumably there is a response, a counter-argument as to why it is important, and so on and so forth. So that needs to be engaged in, because who knows, it might actually really be urgent and important. It just simply hasn't ticked as such for you.

Unsolicited Exploiters — Cancel, Existence Denied ¶

But without priming, when is it okay to entirely ignore and bypass? When that is the only way.

An anecdote. Back in my days in India, you have the beggars chasing you, tailing you, and many, if not most of them, are actually not real beggars in need. For them it's a livelihood.

So we used to have these kids. They would spot you, a foreigner, start tailing you, start hassling you. You would say yes, give them a bit, they'd stick around and ask for more. You would refuse to give, they'd stick around, follow you for kilometers on end. Even if you were vague, they would still keep on chasing, tailing you.

The only thing you could do is simply behave as if they did not exist at all, looking through them into the landscape, into the distance. They are not there, they are not a part of this reality. Their existence has been denied — and that is fundamentally discouraging.

Use that wisely. Do not use it lightly. But at times that's exactly what is required. To deflate someone's one-sided drive that seeks to engage and really exploit you, abuse your boundaries. So that's the second major scenario.

In Taming Your Cognitive Loops ¶

And the third and final master bypass scenario is the ignoring and obliteration of the bullshit happening in your brains. When the racket has gone on, this and that has come to the fore, you've looked at it, you've established it for what it is. Yes, no, maybe, in the future, to be reviewed, flagged for another time.

But it keeps on rising, keeps on hassling you, diverting you from things that are more important. Then it is not there. It is but thin air. My own contents are but thin air to me. They are just as well not there, absolutely ignored, cancelled from existence, zero attention given.

So unto yourself, the same standard as unto the people out there, the environment out there, then all is fair and square and things are in balance. Really you have to have the same discipline internally as you hold externally, especially in regards to the contents of your mind.

Do not allow unleashed free reign, free range roaming of every blip and blop in your head. Keep it in a tight package. All things in their places, in their due formations, their locations, waiting for their time. There is time for creative flow. Allow for that.

But when it's time to settle down, be clear about what exactly is what and where and why, then your inner contents need to conform, establish themselves into their due positions and due relations. Because only from that you gain clarity, orientation, cohesion into what is, internal and external.

Necessary discipline. You cannot allow for the free drift all day, all night. It will simply consume you. It creates a lot of cognitive drain, to a point where you no longer have energy, attention to record, take account of that which is more important, more significant, more consequential in your life.

In Summary — Four Bypass Scenarios ¶

So what have we there? The license to bypass, granted for:

— People who just do not get the message, and keep on pushing, invading your boundaries, and will not evaporate unless they are utterly ignored.

— Second, those coming out of the blue, or "that" coming out of the blue, simply to exploit you, to engage you with an agenda that has nothing to do with your interests, that has nothing to do with your well-being, that really is only leeching on you. That, bypass.

— Third, the flux of your inner contents, when it flows out of control, and regardless bugs you for your attention, craving for that energy of your mind, awareness, for its fuel. Your inner mess seeks to be empowered, and it only thrives with your attention.

Learn to regulate that attention, and at times cut it off completely. Let all of that inner noise vanish into the oblivion, its due nest. It will be recompiled, whatever of it is of essence, in its due time, in its turn, in order of priority. Otherwise, in the fields of oblivion, in the latent field, all of it shall wait, biding their time. Inner discipline. Okay.

— And of course the fourth scenario of what you may legitimately bypass is that bearded fellow on the internet saying all sorts of inconvenient things that challenge and rattle the very premises of your existence, force you to face your demons, to reorient to all that you knew, all that you thought you knew.

Saying that none of it is real. You're just hallucinating, projections that need to be dissolved. Your individuality is a hoax. You're a fraud. You need to dissolve from your subjective shell and rise to the universal field of consciousness, or whatever, into the metacognitive planes.

So that is the fourth case, the final legitimate object that may be royally bypassed. If you do not bypass it, as a baseline defense mechanism, it may entirely shatter your conditioned existence. So keep that in mind and keep it real.

For your context, this was a follow-up on the earlier two quick drops, "Yes, no, maybe, bypass", and the follow-up to that, "Why am I being ignored, as if I do not exist". Check out those two videos as well.